Mary Covert has meant a lot to me these past few years. She is my best friend that I can tell everything to. Nothing can separate us, we hope.
I met her in pre-school at Central Minnesota Christian School. We were friends till about eighth grade, than we became best friends. We played really good together when we were young. Making snow forts in the woods, blanket forts, camping out in the yard, and sledding in the creek. We would draw tattoos, have airplane contests, hoola hoop, jump rope, and be mermaids in the pool, four-wheel with Luke, her brother, and his friends. You name it and we had a blast doing it.
I didn’t truly know Mary until our eighth grade year. Some class drama went on that made everyone mad at each other for an entire day. It was horrific. I got sick of it all so once I got home from school I went on Facebook and put it all to a stop. The next day everything was fine and forgotten, and Mary and I were inseparable.
We have our own way of doing things. Our conversations are so random and fast moving we can barely keep up with them. When we are together it’s like we are in our own little world and no can stop us. We have our own way of talking to each other that leaves people pondering.
To me, Mary and I are related in our own special way. We have a connection that no one will ever be able to understand. We could get into a huge fight, but in our heads we are telling each other how much we love them.
The biggest thing Mary had taught me is that when you have a boyfriend, you need to make sure you don’t loose your friends. It’s easy to do because you get so lost in the moment that the person who knows you the best is slipping away. She’s also taught me that when you have a certain connection with someone that has taken a long time to build, it can easily get torn away without you knowing. Luckily, our relationship can be rebuilt easily.
Mary and I have had a lot of good, funny memories together and I’m going to share a few with you so you can get a feel of our friendship. There are so many that it is hard for me to choose which ones I want to share, but these ones are ones that I will remember forever.
There are always those memories of sleepovers with friends. This one with make your heart smile. Mary and I had just gotten back to my house after a movie with a bunch of friends and we were sitting on Facebook doing some, as we call it, Facebook creepin’. We were looking at some pictures and laughing, having a good time. It got kind of boring so we decided to go get ready for bed. When Mary and I say we are going to bed, it means we are going to talk until we fall asleep. That night we talked about boys. A lot. This is strange for Mary and I cause we usually never stay on one subject no longer than five minutes. This is the part that is going to make you smile. We were having dream date dreams. Dream date dreams is when we take about three minutes and imagine our dream date and then we would tell each other, whom it was with and what we did. We did that for about three hours. It was pretty great.
Another fun memory with Mary really shows our true hair color. We were at Calvin Classics walking around together. We were wearing the same shirts, shorts and Phiten necklaces. We were walking across the track talking about how some people could think we were twins, because at that time my hair was really light. I didn’t realize until I got home and I was looking at the pictures on my camera. There was a picture of Mary and I from behind. On the back of our shirts Covert and Erickson was printed. I laughed so hard I could barely explain to Mary over the phone why I was calling her.
A memory that made me realize Mary was so special came to me at a RCW girl’s basketball game. I was on the bench because I had a broken finger, so I was sitting in front of the team on the bench. We had the ball and Karisa was dribbling it down the court, it got passed to Mary and the next thing I knew she was on the floor crying. The coaches ran over to her to see if she was okay. They started carrying her to the bench and something inside of me popped. I flew up and popped an ice pack for her. She hurt her ankle really bad. They got her sat down and the game was back on.
Everyone’s attention was on the game except mine. I was sitting next to Mary, holding the ice pack on her ankle and talking to her. The coach from the other team brought us a bag of snow so then it would stay colder longer. I helped her get comfortable and wiped away her tears. I took off her shoes and set them aside. Her dad came to talk to her, so I ran to the locker room to get her bag and everything that she needed. I went back to the bench and put on her shoes and her jacket for her. I helped Kevin, her dad, walk her to the front door. I held on to her while he went and got the truck. Watching them drive away was the hardest thing ever. I wanted to go with so badly to make sure she was okay.
The rest of the JV and varsity game was torture. I waited patiently for her to call or text me to let me know she was fine. When I got home from the game, I still hadn’t heard anything from her. My mind was racing till I finally saw that she sent me a text. I was so happy knowing that she was okay. I told her that I loved her and that I was very worried about her. I realized that night that she meant a lot to me because I knew if it was anyone else that had that happen, I would not have reacted the same way I did when it happened to Mary. She means a lot to me. I wanted God to make me feel the pain, not her. Whenever I think of that game I get the goose bumps knowing that I helped her.
There are so many memories that I could tell but it would take a million years to tell all of them, even though a majority of them have happened in recent years. There are very few bad memories with Mary and I don’t think about the bad ones because they don’t matter to me. The only thing that matters is a friendship that will hopefully never end.